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Your Weekly Inspirational Love Quote
November 25, 2008

Your Weekly Inspirational Love Quote

In This Issue:

1. Inspirational Quote for You

2. Relationship Resource

4. Your Turn to Give Relationship Advice


Inspirational Love Quote

Today, we will take a look at anger:

Temper tantrums, no matter how fun they may be never solve the problem that is causing them.

~ Lemony Snicket

One of the most important things you can do for your emotional and spiritual health and for the health of your relationships is work on your anger.

Learning to forgive and move on is a hallmark of maturity.

Read more quotes about anger

Love Resource

Want to get back with your ex, but have hard feelings that are standing in the way?

The Secret to Getting Your Ex to Return Your Calls

Are there 'magic' words you can use to get your ex to return your phone calls?

Sounds hard to believe but there ARE words that will nearly cast a spell and make your ex feel almost compelled to return your call.

Cool huh?...

I am going to share this with you because this is one of the biggest questions I get from the over 35,000 subscribers just like you that are trying to put their relationship back together.

So I am going to answer..."How do I get my ex to return my phone call, text or IM?"


*********** WARNING! ***********

In the Magic Of Making Up, I lay out a complete strategy.

If you use this technique alone, without an 'overall' plan or strategy ... you may damage your relationship more than if they never returned your call.

**************** What NOT to Say! ****************

Before we get into the actual words, let's go over what message almost NEVER works.

and worse...

Puts you in an AWFUL 'psychological' position.

These usually fall into 2 categories.

The PLEAD- Where the message sounds like

"John, please, please call me. This is the 3rd time I have called. I HAVE to talk to you."


"Cindy, this is an emergency. Please call me as soon as you get this."

Now, I think you can see what is wrong with both of those approaches?

So, I won't go on and on...


How To Use Curiosity & Self Interest To Your Advantage


Two of the most powerful forces in the human mind are

*Curiosity & *Self Interest

And here's the BIG SECRET!

When you combine the two, you have a recipe that WILL work 'magic'


Let's look at what you can say that works nearly EVERY TIME.

In a friendly tone:

"Hi John. It's Cindy. I wanted to let you know I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person."

Do you see how that uses BOTH curiosity and self interest?

John will NOT be able to resist! "What did I do?" "What does she appreciate?" he will be thinking. And he feels good because it is a positive message.


Before you call you need to do the "Set Up"...which is figuring out what he/she did that you appreciate.

It can be any small thing...but needs to be plausible.

But more importantly...

************ 2nd WARNING! ************

Please have an underlying strategy like I lay out in the Magic Of Making Up System BEFORE you call.

Magic of Making Up

If you apply this technique with no underlying strategy and they call you back you can do more DAMAGE than good if you do not handle it correctly.


What I am saying is...

What you do before, during and after you get them to return your call is MORE important than getting them to return your call.

Make sense?

Have a Plan

Most people don't want to fail at their relationships - they want to fix things and renew their love.


Your Turn to Give Relationship Advice

Military Distance & Cheating

Think you know enough about love to give advice to others?

Here's a question from Amanda:

I am 23 and my husband and I have been married for a little over two years. We met in Oct 05, got pregnant in Jan 06 and got married in Feb 06. So as you see everything has happened really fast. We were apart for 6 months from March 07 until Sept 07 and then together for 6 months from Sept. 07 until Feb 08. During that time, we d ecided to have our second child.

I went to visit my family for two months while he went to school. During the time we were apart, he told me that he has been unhappy for awhile.

We started to fight a lot on the phone and through email. He turned to a friend and he had an affair with her.

Read the rest of Amanda's request for help
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Until next time,

Laura Ramirez

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