Advice about Ex-boyfriend and Long Distance Relationship

by jasmine

I'm here to get advice about my ex-boyfriend and I. We met online-I know what you're thinking, why online? The more we talked, the deeper our feelings for each other until we were really in love. Not the puppy love type either. The only problem at this point was that we lived in two different towns.

We started going out. After about a month, I went on his page and found this other girl was on there. e lived in two different towns. I asked the girl if she was in a relationship with him and she said yes. So basically he was two-timing me.

As time went by, I asked him why he did what he did. He said because of the long distance relationship—I mean we've never met each other, but that's beside the point—we were in love.

It was like he was going out with her just to be doing it because he couldn't see me. She still stayed with him after all the stuff I told her about him and what he did. He's still in love with me despite everything that has happened.

I asked him if he still has feelings for me or if I should move on. He said that he didn't want to talk about it because he's still with the other girl, whom he said that he had broken up with the last time we talked.

I think he's still in love with me but won't show it because maybe he's gotten too deep in with it with the other girl.

He said his feelings for me won't ever change and if so, then how do I get my boyfriend back even though he's staying with the other girl because he thinks she Mrs. Right, but I think he's lying when he says this. What should I do?

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Dec 22, 2008
Leave Him
by: Waqar

Dear Jasmine

I have read and I believe that I have understood what your feelings are.

But I would like to advise you that please leave this guy, and do not even contact him through any means, he is doing nothing but cheating you. As it is impossible for a man to build relations with another girl separately, if he is in true love with his first girl friend.

I would again advise you to leave him, because at the end of the day, you will be empty handed and your cheat so called boy friend will leave you and I am 100 percent sure that he will leave the other girl as well within a very short period of time.

I dont know whether I have hurt you by advising this, but you have to face the real facts.

I wish you a very happy new year and wish a great life with a great and honest life partner.

Good bye

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