Am I Mean

This guy i used to date was the sweetest guy when we first met but after maybe 2-3 months he began to show his true colors and told me all, well most his "secrets". He's an okay person now and it's been about a year but he's very sneaky and rude and clingy and can be selfish in his own way.

He has 7 kids at age 24, doesn't do much for any but 2 of them, frequently spends a lot of time with the baby mom he so desperately hates but is mad because i dont want to be with him.

He says he feels that i think im "better" than him because of my success, attitude, looks, and standards for "my ideal man"... Am i rude or do i just want and expect better for myself?