Arguing Every Day

by Yvonne babii
(new haven )

My fiance and I have been together for six years. We recently got engaged. I mean we done been through a lot but we never let that stop us. And we love each other to death. But lately things have not been the same between us.

For the past couple months, we've been arguing every day and when we do, it's really bad. and I just feel like I lost him. Like he's not the same person anymore. I just don't feel as good and as happy as I used to feel with him. I don't know if it's because of the arguing or what.

It's like I always thought we were meant to be because of how we met and everything, but lately, I feel like we're just in way over our heads like we just think we're in love when we're really not.

I been confused for the past couple weeks. It's like I love him but sometimes I still question myself why I'm with him. But I've tried to leave him but something always stops me. I don't know what it is though.

I need some help. Has this relationship taken it's toll. Is it over? Should I move on now? Should I stay and make things work?

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Oct 24, 2010
Arguing Every Day
by: Penny

You said both of you have been through a lot together in six years, yet made it through and stayed together. You can't seem to leave and he isn't gone.

Now, what I did notice is it wasn't until the engagement happened that things seemed to reach this level. Could it be someone has some deep down problem with marriage? The union of FOREVER TOGETHER; legally?

I can't say what the issue (issues) are or why, but maybe if the two of you sat down and talked about the marriage aspect you might discover something.

I'll pray you two work it out, one way or the other. GOD BLESS!

Oct 24, 2010
nothing to confuse
by: Anonymous

Just stay, think it is your destiny and follow the flow..."nothing permanent" in other words..everything has an end.

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