Best Friend Has Dated My Boyfriend

by Heather
(Burnet, Texas, USA)

lost confused don't no wat to do

lost confused don't no wat to do

My best friend has dated my boyfriend. What should I do? She looks really jealous that I am dating her ex. I can tell that she still loves him. I am so lost and torn apart over this. What should I do?


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Apr 28, 2010
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Doesn't Care About Her Bestie
by: Anonymous

Stop asking the same questions.
Yes, she dated her bestie's ex..is she STUPID? YES! Does SHE care? Doesn't look like it.
She's not a real bestie.

Apr 27, 2010
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No Way to Be Nicey Nice ...
by: Cher

..about it! Main rule of friendship has been broken...Thou shalt not date your best friend's ex ;)! You can no longer call her your best friend and obviously, you did not respect her or yourself for that matter enough to know that that was a no no.

Now you have lost that best friend connection and it will never be the same even if she does forgive you. For your sake...I do hope your new boyfriend is worth it because you have just lost a friendship and are probably feeling very guilty about it.

Apr 26, 2010
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Dating best friend's ex
by: cheyenne rhuby

You're dating your best friend's ex?

Simple: Don't do to others what you don't want done to you.

Apr 25, 2010
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Dating your best friend's ex
by: Anonymous

Is dating your best friend's ex okay? It depends...a while back, my best friend dated my ex...and I still loved him, I still do.

If your friend said it's okay, go out with him that's one thing. But if she didn't say that or you could tell that she didn't have the guts to tell you the truth, then it's not okay. But if she said it's okay, sure u could go out

Watching your best friend date the guy you love is never easy, and it hurts more than anything else. I hope you dont ever have to feel that much pain.

If you're not sure about it, then maybe you should ask her how she's feeling and tell her to be honest. What she has to say might hurt you, but eventually this boy will leave you, or you will leave him, and all you will have is friendship.

She might not be wiling to trust you again, so as corny as it sounds, ask her. Please listen to her because what hurts more than losing the guy you love to your best friend, is your best friend knowing how you feel, but not caring.

I hope you do the right thing. xx

Apr 25, 2010
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You Are Out Of Order!
by: Penny

What were you thinking? Somethings you just don't do.

Do I understand you to be saying that you are dating your best friend's ex?


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