Big Time Cheater
I have been in a relationship for 10 years. I started dating my partner in high school. I'll be 27 in April. Our relationship was great at first. I got pregnant and gave birth to his first child when I was 19 years old. We moved in together when I was 21 (we are currently still together). On August 15th of 2006, I started getting calls from his "girlfriends." When I asked him about it, he denied it (of course). On August 30th of the same year, one of the girls called and told me he had other children. On that same day, he called me at work and told me he wanted to talk to me about something. When I got home, he confessed that he had 4 other children by 4 different mothers. I am sure you all can understand how I felt. I cried for days, weeks, months. He begged me not to leave him ... he cried.
I actually forgave him and took him back. Since that time we have not had any issues about him cheating. I am not saying he isn't ... our agreement was if he cheats again, I should end the relationship no questions asked.
The moral is even though I have forgiven him, I do not trust him. I want to, but it is so hard. Please give me some good advice.
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