My boyfriend also has had a girlfriend for almost three years. Before we started our relationship I already knew that he had a girlfriend. I tried to forget him and move on, but my feelings for him are still there.
I don't know what's wrong with me because I still believe that he will leave his girlfriend for me. They are staying in one house. He is letting me go and move on but still I choose to stay because I think I cannot leave without him.
So, our communication is still continuing when he is not with her .I am still confused. I know what is the right thing for me to do, but I cannot do it because I'm in love with him.
Nov 07, 2009 Rating
Don't Fool Yourself by: Anonymous
Ask yourself these questions: are you worth it, should you come second? He will not leave his girlfriend.
I been in a relationship for six years myself. I know what's up. I've also been the other woman. He just plays with you when things aren't going right at home. Three months isn't a long time to know somebody, it's always good at first.
Oct 30, 2009 Rating
Don't Let Anyone Play with Your Emotions by: Penny
You are sensing what's going to happen. He has a lot of years with her and no matter what he's telling you, he will not leave her to be with you.
If you could/would just put your emotions aside, you would see that you're his mistress/outside woman. He's not leaving the woman who he has built a home and lifestyle with for six years.
I'm very sorry to write this as I know it will hurt, but you can stop it now before it goes any further. It's your heart. Don't let anyone play with your emotions.