Boyfriend has a Girlfriend

My Boyfriend Has a Girlfriend

I've been seeing this guy for about three months. He's one of the most amazing people I've ever met. We get along amazingly well. It almost seems silly to try to explain it like this. I've never connected with someone so well and he feels the same way.

The problem, of course, is that he has a girlfriend of six years. He tells me often that I'm the one he wants and all of that, but he has yet to do anything about it.

I know that situation is very involved, so I try to be patient. I care about him so much, so I try to give him a break, but on nights that he is with her, I go absolutely insane.

I have so many reservations about this. Will his family hate me? Will he miss her and regret us? Is this simply morally wrong, even though I feel so incredibly strongly about him?

I don't know, I don't know, I don't know. Any input would be so greatly appreciated. This is beginning to consume my life, which I do not particularly like because I am also terrified of the day when he tells me that he doesn't want to see me anymore after I've waited for him for so long. Thank you!