Boyfriend Might Be Gay - Help

Me and my boyfriend live together in an apartment. It was a Thursday afternoon, and I had to work late. When I arrived home, I found my boyfriend of two years having sex with his best friend. Of course, I got furious, and I demanded an excuse. He didn't have one other than that they just wanted to try it out.


What the hell? Should I leave him or not? Nobody wants a gay boyfriend. Please help.

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Jul 24, 2009
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What u waiting for?
by: Anonymous

Sweety, what are you waiting for? Just admit that your man is gay. Things will never be the same and I know that it's not easy to leave him because you love him. The sooner the better or else you will get hurt at the end when he chooses another guy over you.

Jun 05, 2009
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Gay boyfriend
by: Daisy

Honey, your boyfriend is gay. How can you have sex with him now? Every time you do, you will think of that moment with his best friend. Leave now.

Jun 05, 2009
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Gay Boyfriend
by: Anonymous

Honey, make him and his boyfriend pack his stuff and get out. You deserve way better than that. Gay? Come on now. Please make him leave.

Jun 04, 2009
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Run Like Hell
by: Anonymous

Girlfriend, Leave him ASAP! How could you even be the least bit attracted to him now. Cut your losses and find a real man.

Jun 04, 2009
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" What Do You Want To Do"?
by: Penny

You saw with your own eyes; you know in both your heart and mind that this was not and will not be the last time. No one can tell you what to do. The question is what do you WANT to do? I know if this were my situation, I'd leave.

Jun 04, 2009
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Please Go!
by: Anonymous

OMG Leave, now! Please ... my ex boyfriend turned out to be gay and he hurt me so bad. So bad, it's been a year and I'm still kind of upset with myself.

I knew he was gay and I gave him chance after chance. In the end, all the "I love you's" and "there's no other girl for me" were a waste of breath.

There wasn't another girl because he wanted guys ... Leave! He'll only end up choosing him over you and that puts you in danger.

Also, maybe he did want to try it, but if he really loved you, he would have fought the temptation or left before he could really hurt you.

Jun 04, 2009
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Woah
by: Anonymous

Umm.... unless you are down with that swinging bisexual stuff LEAVE HIM NOW before he gives you some disease, breaks your heart, and then you are left feeling like you wasted years of your life with him!

Seriously, I'm sorry you are in this situation, but this is one of those times when you use your head and ignore your heart completely!

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