My boyfriend doesn't call me or text me or come see me as much as I want him to. When I point this out, he acts like I am over-thinking and there's nothing to worry about, that he's working and has a lot going on ... I tell him I have to work and have a lot going on too, but I still make time for him and that he finds time to do whatever he want to do. I told him all I want from him is to check on me to see how I am doing and keep me posted on what's going on with him.
I hate it when sometimes I will call him like two or three times or text him and he will say that he didn't get it ... I feel like that's a lie. He keeps telling me not to worry, that he loves me and he wants to be with me, but he keeps doing the same things over and over even the things he knows that I don't like.
I told him actions speak louder than words and I am not going to keep on telling him the same things over and over. What should I do about these boyfriend problems? I don't what to push him away by nagging him about the same things over and over.