I know that when people give their opinion (on what you should do), they don't always stop and think if what they're advising you to do, is "easier said than done." It's easy for us to tell you what we think you should do, however, we're not the one who is in the relationship.
With that in mind, I'm going to look at this from your point of view. I know that there's comfort in having a relationship, however, you need to write down the pros and cons. If there's more pros than cons: stay with him. If the cons out-weigh the pros, you need to part ways.
Having said that, I can honestly say that it sounds like he's causing you more grief, than happiness.
Remember we teach people how to treat us. Make him, (whoever he is,) treat you right, from the beginning!. A healthy relationship is based on love, trust, and respect, NOT CONTROL!
Not only does he not trust you, he's trying to control you. Based on those things, I believe that God has someone else for you -- a man that will make you happy, trust you, and respect you.
Just remember, you have to hold people accountable to those standards. Don't settle for anything less.
Best of luck to you! Don't forget to pray -- God wants His children to be happy -- He will give you all of the guidance that you need. Love, ~Holly~
Mar 12, 2010 Rating
Run You Out of His Life by: Penny
Yes, you do know what to do; do as you feel/please. Personally, the word "control" turns me off.
There are times in a relationship when two people have to compromise, never does one or the other always get his/her way or what he/she wants.
When we compromise, it is a settlement of differences in which each side makes concessions; set aside what we want for the sake of the other person because we love him/her or want the relationship to work. It takes two people who want the relationship to work.
Trying to control or running the other person's life will chase him/her away!
Communication and trust are very important keys in a relationship and without them it won't work!
