Boyfriend Wants To Know How Many Guys I've Been With

by Samantha
( IL, USA)

My boyfriend wants to know how many guys I've been with and I lied to him. He asked me again and I said the same lie again. Then he wrote me a message and asked me one more time. I then wrote him a message back, telling him the truth.

I'm scared that he is going to think of me different and not in a sexual way anymore. What should I do to tell him I'm sorry for lying and tell him I'm not going to lie anymore. How do I get him to think of me in the same way that he has always thought of me?

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Oct 02, 2009
Bad decision... now move forward.
by: Anonymous

You shouldn't lie, dear, but under the circumstances, I'd have done the same. But if you're going to lie, you must keep it forever. Forever!

He now wonders how many other lies you've told. No man really wants to hear the truth on this type of subject matter.

You can try to keep things the same but know that they have changed. One thing you cannot do is now make excuses for your past behavior. Nothing in this makes you look sexy or special in his eyes. All men want to be the first and the last. I'm sorry. Experience.. it's a lovely thing to acquire.

Next time, you'll get it right. If I were you at this point I would simply let it be his problem because it has to be. You have reasons for your behavior that you understand, unfortunately he doesn't. Let it be. Hold your head high, love, and today... be very generous with yourself.

Learn to love yourself first and the world will love you back. Warm Hugs.

Oct 01, 2009
Don't Bother with Him
by: Anonymous

Hey, why don't you ask him how many girls he's been with? It is NONE of his business how many boys you have been with BEFORE him!

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