Break Up - Can't Move On

by rhaine
(philippines)

Break Up - Can't Move On


I still can't move on from my break up from my boyfriend. We just broke up through the phone. I really don't know the real reason why he broke up with me.

At first, I thought things were going well. It hurts so much knowing that he's my first boyfriend and it turned out this way.

I have no strength to ask him why he broke up with me because I'm afraid I will be much hurt to know the real reason. Right now, I just pretend that I'm doing well when I'm with my friends.


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Dec 17, 2009
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I know exactly what you mean...
by: Nicky

I can really empathize with you girl.
I'm going through the same thing.
I have been pretty depressed the last three days but I am doing a good job of distracting myself now.
If you look back and really think, either you'll find you already know what went wrong, or he is a complete bone-head idiot that you were in love with.

If you are anything like me, you are still desperately hoping he'll call back and you'll find out it was a big mistake.
However, everyone says the first breakup is the worst and that person will stay with you forever.

So give it time. It's hard, I know that, but if this is what he wanted, then there is no way you would ever be able to regain what you two had.

And don't hold it all in. Let one of your best friends in on your true feelings. Crying and letting it all out really helps. Even though it is over with him, there are other people that love you.

Here is a quote that might make you feel better, like it did for me.

It takes a lot of courage to release the familiar and seemingly secure, to embrace the new. But there is no real security in what is no longer meaningful. There is more security in the adventurous and exciting, for in movement there is life, and in change there is power.



Big hug for you \(^-^)/

be happy again!

Dec 08, 2009
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Great Pretender
by: Malaya 2 pinas

Hi, kumusta galing Malaysia ito ha.

It's good that you can still pretend that you are okay, girl.
Alam mo totoo lahat ang sinabi ng first comments sa iyo.

God would never give you this problem if you couldn't handle it. You will and I believe in you.
I think you are still young and maybe you are going to fall in love again, so it's not the end of the world.

I'm forty now, but I just feel in love again and am broken-hearted once more. Sometimes, life is so difficult, so many challenges and trials.

Noon ang akala ko hindi ko kayang mawala ng asawa pero mali pag hindi ka na maliga for what?
at kung ako sa iyo, hwag mo ng kontakin ang bf mo.

Leave him. Let him be the first to call you but this time, you must be more clever and alert.
It's true that you don't need to ask him why he broke up and on the phone actually he is coward. I don't think you will like it when you know why he broke up with you.
Good luck.

Na lang sa yo.

It's me, Myrlinda.

Nov 26, 2009
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Bible Verses that Can Help
by: Maddie


Bible Verses that Can Help

My suggestion if you still can't move on...just think of these tips.

First, distraction. There are a lot of things that can distract you from thinking about him.

Second, relax.

Third, smile. Honestly, when you smile, not only do you help yourself but you infect the other people around you. Never know when someone is already falling in love with your smile. Just don't be plastic about it.

Fourth, don't sweat it. Seriously, think that breakups are there for a reason. They will make you stronger if you allow them to. If we all married the one we first fell in love with, I think the world would be in chaos.

Fifth. Always remember that you are where you are meant to be. God will not give you anything you can't handle. He knows that you can get through this and whatever He means to happen will happen. For now, all you can do is stand by. Follow life as it goes. You are where you are meant to be. You are where God wants you to be. Have faith.

I'll leave you with two Bible verses that can help you.

Jeremiah 29:11 (what God will do for you)
Jeremiah 33:3 (what you should do for God)


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