If you have those feelings for your ex boyfriend, then you need to come clean with the new guy. That's how people get into trouble. You know that you have to let it go, and for what I can see, you are not willing to accept this, but you can't have your cake and eat it too.
If that's what you want, it doesn't work. Trust me, been there, got my T-shirt. I'm 63, better listen. Anonymous
Oct 15, 2009 Rating
Breakup with Boyfriend or Accept How He Is by: Anonymous
Girl, I know what you mean. I'm pretty much going through the same thing right now. I mean, I have feelings for my boyfriend, but we always fight and he has this anger thing all the time and never is happy and I try so hard to make things work, but honestly I don't know if its worth it any more.
But yet on the other hand I still have feelings for my ex he was the love of my life for 8 years and we have 3 kids. Now and then, I still have sex with him - well, my thought in this whole process of both of our situations is that maybe we just need to be single or go back with our ex to make things work and see what's left. We need time to heal our broken hearts.
Oct 14, 2009 Rating
Get Over Your Ex by: Penny
Stop and get yourself together before you move on. You seem to need more time to get over your ex. This is a big issue because until you do, your mind and heart will forever be on your ex and that's not fair to the new person in your life.
Oct 14, 2009 Rating
Heal your Heart by: Anonymous
If you are not healed with your previous relationship, do not start a new one. Try to give a break/space to heal your heart.
To do this, you need to accept that you're done with your ex, that he will never be back in your life. Then forgive whatever heartaches you have. Then you will heal...that's when you are ready for a new relationship.
"We may love the wrong person and cry for the wrong reason but no matter how things go wrong, one thing is sure: mistakes help us find the right people that are meant for us."
