Breakup or Accept Him?

by amy m melicor
(philipines)

i'm sad but still   happy

i'm sad but still happy

Right now, I'm in a relationship, but not sure what I should do. I want to love my boyfriend more, but I still have feelings for my ex boyfriend, who I am trying to forget.


Every time my boyfriend snubs my feelings, I always think about my ex because he never did things like that.

I guess that I just don't feel the spirit of my boyfriend, his love, his care, but still I'm here for him.

Is this a little conflict between him and I or a big issue in our relationship? Help me ... what should I do? Breakup or accept him as he is?

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Oct 15, 2009
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In Love with Ex
by: Anonymous

Hey Girl,

If you have those feelings for your ex boyfriend, then you need to
come clean with the new guy. That's how people
get into trouble. You know that you have to let it go, and for what I can see, you are not willing to accept this, but you can't have your cake and eat it too.

If that's what you want, it doesn't work. Trust me, been there, got my T-shirt. I'm 63, better listen. Anonymous

Oct 15, 2009
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Breakup with Boyfriend or Accept How He Is
by: Anonymous

Girl, I know what you mean. I'm pretty much going through the same thing right now. I mean, I have feelings for my boyfriend, but we always fight and he has this anger thing all the time and never is happy and I try so hard to make things work, but honestly I don't know if its worth it any more.

But yet on the other hand I still have feelings for my ex he was the love of my life for 8 years and we have 3 kids. Now and then, I still have sex with him - well, my thought in this whole process of both of our situations is that maybe we just need to be single or go back with our ex to make things work and see what's left. We need time to heal our broken hearts.

Oct 14, 2009
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Get Over Your Ex
by: Penny

Stop and get yourself together before you move on. You seem to need more time to get over your ex. This is a big issue because until you do, your mind and heart will forever be on your ex and that's not fair to the new person in your life.

Oct 14, 2009
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Heal your Heart
by: Anonymous

If you are not healed with your previous relationship, do not start a new one. Try to give a break/space to heal your heart.

To do this, you need to accept that you're done with your ex, that he will never be back in your life. Then forgive whatever heartaches you have. Then you will heal...that's when you are ready for a new relationship.

"We may love the wrong person and cry for the wrong reason but no matter how things go wrong, one thing is sure: mistakes help us find the right people that are meant for us."

God Bless,

Jewel

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