Broke Up with Me

by samantha lynn rasmussen
(wisconsin)

i cant let you go.....

i cant let you go.....

My boyfriend and I just broke up a month ago.

We were together for 3 months and 2 weeks. He broke up with me over text message before school one day.

I still talk to him and everything. I've told him how I felt and he has told me the same thing. that he still loved me, but I don't know what to believe. I keep falling for him over and over again but everytime I try to get him back, he plays the same game and just makes me fall for him even more. Then the next day, he'll act like nothing ever happened. He's the first guy that I have ever opened up for and I don't know what to do.

All my friends say I should get over him, but for some reason I just can't do it. I need advice and help. What should I do with him? I've tried to not talk to him, I've tried to get him pissed off at me so he won't talk to me, but it just never works. If he gets pissed, I say I'm sorry, and if I try to stop talking to him, it just doesn't work. Please give me something on what I should do.

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Apr 23, 2010
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Try to Move On
by: Rene

Your friends are right, you should try to move on. I know it feels impossible, but you must.

My ex and I dated for a year and 7 months...we broke up 5 months ago and I'm still not over him. He was my first and only love. He used to dump me over text all the time. I don't see him anymore and don't talk to him because whenever I do, I just want to be with him again.

It is going to take a while to get past this, but nobody deserves to feel like this. Just try to be strong, don't tell him how you feel anymore because he's getting attention from that and knows you won't let go and he won't lose you. Give him something to work for. Men like challenges and get bored if everything is given to them on a platter.

Also people are sent to you so you can learn certain lessons and gain spiritual growth. Just accept that all is as it was meant to be and let go of past memories..

Good luck. Hope things work out.

Apr 22, 2010
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Listen To Your Friends
by: Penny

If you won't listen to your friends, there's nothing I can say!

Apr 22, 2010
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Move On Like He Did
by: cheyenne rhuby

Based on what you wrote, the guy you love is not worth loving. Don't waste your time, love, tears to someone who doesn't deserve it. It's true that the pain will always be there but if you don't help yourself to move on, you will always feel like this.

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