Broken Marriage in Alabama

by angelia h. hamer
(cleveland alabama)

I am a 39 year old grandmother of 4. My husband and I are separated and were trying to work things out until an old friend of ours came around. I left his mother's house because me and her hate each other and after I had surgery and he went back to work, she would torment me when he wasn't around.

I moved in with our daughter hoping we'd get our own place soon, but instead his mother moved Cheryl and her son in and pushed him and her together. He told me he's torn between her and me, that he loves us both and that she loves him in a way I didn't and I love him in way's she can't.

I truly love my husband and don't know what to do. I want to know how to save my marriage. The girl is scared of me which she should be, but I'm not going to let her destroy our family.

I had to get on medication because of depression and severe anxiety attacks that felt like a heart attack.

We met and talked Monday and I was so upset and couldn't stop crying that I was driving 90 miles an hour and all I could think about was stopping the pain I was feeling.

Please help me before I go mad. I can't let go, wouldn't now how and I'm so scared alone and confused. What do I do? Please help me.

We have been together off an on for 27 years and I can't let that go down the drain because of some home-wrecking-you-know-what. I really wish she and his mom would fall off the face of the earth. I'm desperate, please help me before my whole life is destroyed.