Broken Marriage in Alabama

by angelia h. hamer
(cleveland alabama)

I am a 39 year old grandmother of 4. My husband and I are separated and were trying to work things out until an old friend of ours came around. I left his mother's house because me and her hate each other and after I had surgery and he went back to work, she would torment me when he wasn't around.

I moved in with our daughter hoping we'd get our own place soon, but instead his mother moved Cheryl and her son in and pushed him and her together. He told me he's torn between her and me, that he loves us both and that she loves him in a way I didn't and I love him in way's she can't.

I truly love my husband and don't know what to do. I want to know how to save my marriage. The girl is scared of me which she should be, but I'm not going to let her destroy our family.

I had to get on medication because of depression and severe anxiety attacks that felt like a heart attack.

We met and talked Monday and I was so upset and couldn't stop crying that I was driving 90 miles an hour and all I could think about was stopping the pain I was feeling.

Please help me before I go mad. I can't let go, wouldn't now how and I'm so scared alone and confused. What do I do? Please help me.

We have been together off an on for 27 years and I can't let that go down the drain because of some home-wrecking-you-know-what. I really wish she and his mom would fall off the face of the earth. I'm desperate, please help me before my whole life is destroyed.

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Mar 11, 2014
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Jan 07, 2010
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by: Penny

You will not like what I'm writing, nevertheless I think you should know this.

Your husband has said Cheryl loves him in a way you didn't, you love him in a way she can't, he loves both of you and mother dearest pushed him and Cheryl together.

Your husband wants to eat his cake and have it too! His mother doesn't control his feelings toward Cheryl or you even if she did push them together.

The person at fault for loving Cheryl is YOUR HUSBAND! You need to take control of you and only you and accept that if your husband wanted to be with you, he would be!

You can make this easy or hard for yourself...easy would be to simply move out the way and let him, YOUR HUSBAND, choose the person he loves and want to be with, this way you'll know where he's stands emotionally with you.

Hard would be what you and Cheryl are doing now and he's just sitting back loving every minute of having two women want him at the same time; fighting over him while he gets to do what he wants!

Make your mind up to let him choose with you not standing in his way, then you'll SOON see who he wants.


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