Can Best Friends Fall in Love

by lea
(philippines)

I'm deeply in love with my best friend, but he's already committed and loves his girlfriend. I just don't understand the things he does to me. He cares too much for me and treats me like his own. He even kisses me, embrace me and we're always together. I want to ask him about this, but every time I try to confront him about what he really feels for me, he doesn't answer. Please give me some advice. Thanks.




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Jan 14, 2010
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He Loves His Girlfriend
by: Anonymous

It sounds like you should back off. If he says he loves his girlfriend, THAN HE IS NOT YOURS! Sorry, honey, but he has the best of both worlds. He is with who he wants or he'd change it

Dec 12, 2009
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I'm filipino too
by: 2428

He likes you! But he's just "torpe" (you know that) and doesn't want to ruin your friendship. I've had that same problem, I was in love with my best friend for 6 years, and when I told him just this year, I found out that I was too late, because he said he liked me too and just didn't have the confidence to tell it to me. So, you know, just stand up to him and tell him what you really feel, and just wait. He'll soon realize that you are the perfect girl for him. <3

Nov 28, 2009
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Perfect Friendship
by: Anonymous

He doesn't answer because he doesn't want to ruin the perfect friendship. I know what you are going through because I am going through the same thing. It hurts so bad. We have talked about it and he said he doesn't want to hurt his girlfriend, but if they break up it will be me and him.

Dec 07, 2008
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yeahh
by: Sierra

It happened to me!!!
aww he'll answer one day.
When he realizes he likes you...
Make his girlfriend look like a real bitch! :D

May 28, 2008
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I think he loves you ...
by: pamela

... but is scared to tell you because he doesn't know how you're going to react, even if y'all do kiss and stuff. Or he doesn't want to hurt his girlfriend because he does love her but doesn't love her the way that he loves you. Give him some time, even though it hurts you. You'll be happy in the long run. TRUST ME, I know.

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