Confused about Love

by Kimberly
(Marrieta GA usa)

I'm really confused about love. There is this guy who I'm going out with and I do like him, but everything is fading away, it's all going down the drain. I don't want to leave him because I feel like I'm going to regret it!


He tells me that he loves me and that he doesn't want to lose me and that makes me cry because I don't mean it when I say I love him too. I feel so bad I don't know what to do!

We have been dating for one month and two weeks. I don't know what to do and I need some good advice!

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May 09, 2009
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Damn
by: MaMaLoCz

If you don't love him, you shouldn't be with him. Think how you would feel if he was doing that to you and you were the one telling him you love him. You wouldn't appreciate it and he probably doesn't either.

Love is a word that you can't just throw around. You'll learn that later in life.
For now, just let the boy go and be free to be with somebody who means it when they say I love you.

Sorry, sweetie, but that's a BITCH move. :)

Mar 31, 2009
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how?
by: Anonymous

If you don't love him. then break up with him. Plus, how can you love someone if you've only been dating for a month.

Mar 25, 2009
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by: Anonymous

Hey, I am in the same situation...all I can say is tell him you need to take a break for a while and just stay friends and if you really love him or it's meant to be, you all will get back together. I hope this helps...good luck, I wish you the best.:)

Mar 24, 2009
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Honesty Is Best
by: Spiritually-Minded

You have been with this person for a little over a month. Believe it or not you must grow in love. Some people are deceived by lust at first sight because the first thing they want to do is have sex with a person. Good sex doesn't make love and I hope that you are not using sex as a foundation for your relationship.

A solid relationship is built over time and contains trust, honesty, respect, communication (talking and listening), dedication (not bailing at the first sign of trouble), stability to endure any storms (problems) that may arise, and a willingness to work hard.

Don't be quick to move in with him. Take your time, get to know him, and let love have room to grow. Be honest and tell him exactly how you feel and listen to what he has to say. If you both are willing to work together and to stay together. then go for it. Make sure that he has something to say and that he is being honest.

Mar 24, 2009
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kimberly
by: Anonymous

Chica, if you don't love him, don't stay with him. You are only hurting him and hurting yourself especially. It is better if guys becoame really good friends. Males can be really good friends even better friends than girls are.

Mar 23, 2009
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Love takes Work
by: Anonymous

Remember love is work, it's not always fun, and if it's only been a month, go ahead and call it quits, but you better be sure that he is not the one. If he is, stick in there because that's how it works.

Mar 23, 2009
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Be careful
by: Anonymous


A heart is a delicate thing. You have to be very careful how you treat someone and their heart. If you don't have the same feelings that he has, don't lead him on -- it only makes matters worse. If your heart isn't in it, you better tell him so. Maybe you guys can work things out and find the spark that you're looking for. Be honest.

Mar 23, 2009
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Hard Advice to Follow
by: Anonymous

I know exactly what you are going through. I know that this doesn't help at all, but the only thing you can do is to follow your heart. I broke up with my boyfriend the other week, and I will admit, I do regret it. Now he has a new girlfriend, but says that he still likes me. If you think it's going down the drain, just tell him. And if you decide to break up with him, that will be the easiest way to do it.

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