I've been dating this guy for about a year now. I was happy with him until my ex-boyfriend came into my life again. My ex-boyfriend and I have been having something secretly. We've been secretly dating for about 3 months now. They both make me happy! They both tell me that they love me. But, I don't know which one may be the right one for me.
My ex-boyfriend won't leave me alone. He says he doesn't want to give up on me because he really wants to be with me again. He's doing everything to prove to me that he loves me. He says that he'll leave me alone but only if I tell him to. But, I can't tell him this because I want him around. I don't know who to choose. Please help me! I know I can't have both of them forever. What can I do to help make a final decision?