Confusion about Love

We started as friends, perhaps, we are still friends. Nothing more, nothing less..

We just came to a point, where I couldn't identify "love" and friendly love.

He made me feel so important, he even had a mushy lines for me. I thought we're starting to have a "next-level" relationship.

But one day, he told me that he is confused about his true identity, and kissed another guy. Of course, I was so shocked!. He asked me if I was angry. Hell, yes!

He told me that he was so hurt because he hurt me and for lying to me. He even sang a song for me to try to lessen the pain I was experiencing.

He told me that he would give me time to understand was is happening to us. He told me that he won't give up on us, on me, on our friendship.

After a few days, we became friends. I thought I understood him, but I still didn't. He asked me if was ok, and I said yes. But as a couple, we were not. Damn, I'm so hurt.

Now we are friends, but out misunderstanding is still present. I don't know what to do.

It's just so painful. Expectations really can hurt people.

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Jan 10, 2012
love just sucks
by: PudG

i wouldn't even know what to do if that happened to me. i know how i feel in my own confusion now and i do have gay best friends but to have it happen would be hard to understand (which i'm good at) AND be going through the heartbreak of it! i hope everything works out for the two of you

Sep 27, 2010
I feel your pain
by: Anonymous

Wow...I know exactly how it feels, I'm going through the same thing right now...except im a guy and it's my girl who's been cheating behind my back with another hurts every second of every day...and im so confused

May 21, 2010
fell in love again....
by: Anonymous

i totally know how you feel... i had been going out with a guy (Jack) for about 3 and a half years and i really thought that we were going to get married. All of the sudden he told me that he was gay... and that he had been having an affair with another guy for about a year. It was the most horrible thing i have ever experienced it made me feel like i was worthless but trust me when i tell you that you will get through this. I was on the brink of being suicidal and then last year i met the man of my dreams he showed me what true love really was. I love him even more than I had ever really loved jack.

Apr 19, 2010
He is Gay
by: Anonymous

Reading this let me know that I'm not alone. My boyfriend told me last night that he is gay...and he wants me to meet his boyfriend.

I'm really confused about the whole situation, but it's nice to know that someone else has been through it too.

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