Does He Trust Me?

by Olivia Rose
(boston)


I don't know what to do about my boyfriend. We have been dating for 5 months and he said he loved me on the 5th day.


I don't know anyone who does that and I haven't said it back. He always says it, but I have been in love once and only once.

He asked me if I was cheating on him and I'm NOT. I don't know if he trusts me, but love is about trusting someone with all your heart and not questioning if he's cheating or flirting with other girls.

I cry myself to sleep every night because I know the guy I'm in love with wouldn't do what my recent boyfriend does. Help.

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Mar 30, 2009
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Slow Down
by: Spiritually-Minded

Get out of that relationship now. First of all because you haven't gotten over your ex. Second, because the new man may have some trust issues or he maybe too possessive.

Even though you aren't cheating in deed, you are in your heart, because you know that you still have strong feelings for your ex that you need to resolve. Your new boyfriend deserves a wholehearted chance and your honesty about how you feel about your ex.

You should take time to heal. Your new boyfriend needs to slow his role because he seems to be trying to pressure you. You don't know him and he doesn't know you. Love and trust must be established and given time to grow. It has been 5 months not enough to know each other, let alone love.

Whatever you do, don't compromise yourself. Sometimes we say what we think others want to hear instead of telling the truth. We need to know that our loved ones can handle the truth, so that when problems arise we will know that they can keep a cool head.

Mar 28, 2009
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A Word of Advice
by: Anonymous

So why be with your current boyfriend? if he does not trust you and you have given him no reason not to trust you that is his issue. And I don't care how hard you try, you still can't prove that to a person that has trust issues. Why did you and your ex breakup? And if you are still crying and thinking about your ex, you have to resolve your feelings for him before you can start another one. Maybe you need a little time to yourself. What do you think?

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