Does she want to be more than friends???

I met this girl 4 months ago. We always hung out in a group setting and i found myself starting to all in love with her. We have so much in common and click well together. anyway, one day i called her and wimpily asked her to go out, she said she wants to be friends. SO the next day we acted like nothing really happened and went back to being friends. A month later i got fed up and broke contact with her. we didn't talk for a month and i finally called her. Since then she has called me a bunch and invited me to hang out with her just me and her on two occasions in the past week. We also made plans to go to two concerts this week. I cant tell if she is starting to like me or she still just wants to be friends. What should I do? please help!

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Apr 12, 2011
tell her
by: Anonymous

It sounds like you really care for her and have started to fall in love with her. She/I have fallen in love with you too. You are a great guy! You are who I have been praying for all these years.

The only reason I say I want to be friends only is because I need to hear you say you love me directly, not in code from other people. You are the most romantic man I have met in my entire life. However you are also married which complicates everything -

I love you deeply; you are the first thought I think of when I wake up and the last thought I think of before I go to sleep. I think of you throughout the entire day.

So, to answer your question, what should you do? You should know that I want to be more than friends.

Mar 13, 2011
shes fighting with you
by: Anonymous

Dude just get her by herself and say exactly what you have said in your article! she knows what youre feeling just let her know if nothing can come of it you would rather just be an acquaintance because being friends with a hidden agenda on your part at least (she should respect your honesty), just say it and move on to the next one if she is playing with you. You see she knows you like her and keeping you as a friend is only feeding her own ego, do you want to be her puppy dog?... No she would be far more likely to be attracted to you if you HAVE YOUR OWN MIND AND DON'T LET HER RULE YOUR THOUGHTS!

Dec 14, 2010
Take it Easy
by: Dee

I think just hold tight for a while and don't always be available when she calls. Don't let her think she is the only one. Soon she will be knocking your door down. Play it cool.

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