I've been friends with him since we're 5 and now I told him just before, but he just said this "I love you but as a sister."
I'm just confused and sad.
Jan 18, 2010 Rating
Love my best friend by: Gemma
I'm in love with my best friend too. I've only known him two years but it's like we've known each other all our lives. He treats me so nice like you would your best friend. We go everywhere together.
Every weekend he has a fight with his girlfriend over me. She tells him that he treats me more like a girlfriend than he does her.
Dec 26, 2009 Rating
Fallen in Love by: Anonymous
I've fallen in love once in my life and the guy doesn't know and probably never will. Unlike you though, I fell in love within a few weeks of meeting him. We got to know each other extremely quickly, talking for hours at a time at every opportunity. It was amazing how much we had in common, and it was the first time I felt like someone really understood me.
He liked me, even I admitted that, but somehow that interest went away, as far as I know. I decided to try to "just be friends", but I didn't do a very good job at acting. We talked less and less. It was like I was trying to give him space, thinking that's what guys want, but instead we just became like strangers. I spent a year in painful confusion and frustration with myself, crying almost every night. I spent another year "getting over him", which would have been a lot easier if I hadn't seen him looking sad every once in a while. I didn't think it was because of me, but I wanted to be there for him.
I did get an almost ending; I'll be seeing him only once a year, and this last time he seemed really happy. He came up to me and hugged me and we talked almost the way we used to. During the conversation, he mentioned he had a girlfriend. I'd expected that, though. When it was time to leave, he made a point of saying goodbye and hugging me again. Somehow this is enough for me to feel happy. I have my friend back.
Nov 15, 2009 Rating
Love by: abhi
You took the words right out of my heart. Everything that you've written I have been through because that's exactly what he did to me. I'm in love with my best guy friend too. He knows and even though it hurts for me to see him love another girl, I still supported him. I even went with him to propose to a girl a few months ago, but I couldn't watch him on his knees proposing to another girl so I left.
Even after that incident, I still loved him. I found out that the girl rejected him and it hurt me more not because he didn't love me but because he didn't get the love he wanted.
He's in Canada now studying at the university. One month ago, we chatted on webcam and he told me that he likes another girl...I still supported him like I always do.
Oct 31, 2009 Rating
In Love with Guy Friend by: Anonymous
I'm in love with my guy friend too. It's like I keep waiting for him to realize, but he won't. So I'm here, waiting. The pathetic thing is I think that I will always be here, waiting for him. I have never felt so strongly for anyone the way I feel for him. I couldn't imagine my life without him and because of that, I have to live with this.
Sep 18, 2009 Rating
Love with Guy Friend by: Anonymous
I'm in love with my best guy friend. We are teenagers and he's socially slow, so when I flirt with him, he never gets it :( and more than that, I hang out with him and everything he says...every word, every movement makes me love him more and more each day. His name is Owen. He's amazing, but he'll never see that I look at him and think "he's all i want to be with." He won't ever understand.
I'm sorry for you-I really am. I know how it feels :(
