Feeling Empty and Unwanted

by Quindella Broadnax
(Birmingham, AL USA)

Quin

Quin

Me and my boyfriend have known each other for 11 months now and have been in a relationship for 7 months. Everything was going well for the first couple of months. For the last 3 months everything has been going down hill.


I've thought about leaving him, but I've fallen so deep in love with him that I don't know what to do. The problem is I call and text and he doesn't respond. I've been through so much in my past with men that I don't underestimate anyone.

Usually on his off days, he comes to see me or I go see him, but he doesn't answer my call or text and he always has some lame excuse why he doesn't do his part.

I love him, but I don't know what to do or expect anymore. What should I do?



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Jan 08, 2011
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dont' be nobodys' fool!!!!
by: Anonymous

that man doesn't care about you. You are just something to do. When he can't get with the one he wants to be with. wake up and smell the s--- . there is someone out there. that will treat you like a queen. get back in church and let god use you. You have a gift and god wants to use you.

Sep 19, 2010
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and he wants to marry me
by: Anonymous

I don't know what exactly your man is like....but my relationship is also going through this phase...but the difference is this: we two are getting married soon...He proposed me for marriage... I said yes....but still he's the same...he never texts me back....calls me rarely....but still he says he is in deep love with me.... and my god only knows this....its a really fussy situation for me.... I never understand the reality of my relationship :-(

Aug 24, 2010
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its not worth it
by: liz

I know what your going thru. My last year of high school i met a guy that had just came to my school, and we really hit it off.

Before i knew it he asked me to marry him and i did. everything was so good, but 3 months after we were married we found out i was pregnant.

That's when everything changed, he stopped holding me when we slept, he stopped telling me he loved me, i mean everything just turned to s*&%. then he started telling me that i needed to give the baby up for adoption and i kept telling him that i didn't want to, but one day he told me something, and i knew i had to give her up.

once i had her, i had given her up. and once everything was final, he moved out. and told me that he needed some time to think about things and after some time of being out he told me that he didnt want to be with me any more.

after a while he came back and said he'd make it work but i found out he was seeing someone else. and he left again, but yet again he came back and told me he'd make it work and that he told this girl that he was going to make it work with me, but again i found out it wasn't true.

I begged him not to do this to me and the only thing he could tell me was that he didn't love me anymore. so now i lost my baby and the man i love most in the world, and everything else.

so point of my story, it's not worth it, if someone doesn't want to be with you, no matter how much you beg or ask or change for them, they won't be with you. don't spend time on something that isn't going to go anywhere.

Apr 25, 2010
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wake the heck up
by: Anonymous

wake the heck up! how can you put such a low value on yourself and such a high value on him? You need to look in the mirror and realize your worth. If that does not work, pay someone to kick you directly in your ass and maybe the message will reach your brain.

Oct 29, 2009
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Let Him Go
by: Anonymous

I'd let him go. If he can't be man enough to text you back instead of leaving you hanging, he's not worth it.

Oct 22, 2009
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time to start again
by: Anonymous

he knows it is over, you don't. he probably has another girl. don't drag it woman. that will only make it worse for you. drop him, heal. find a better man or better yet let a better man find you. this love that breaks your heart will one day heal your heart. good luck and God Bless...

Oct 21, 2009
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Let Go
by: Penny

Have you fallen so deep in love that you don't know what to do or is it that you don't want to do what needs to be done because you have fallen so deeply in love and don't want to let him go? This is what you should do...let him go.

Oct 21, 2009
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Move On
by: Anonymous

I think he is not the right guy for you.
God created the right person for each of us, so
all you have to do is follow the flow of your life and wait for the right guy. It's not easy to do, but it is better to do for your own good.

Oct 17, 2009
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Get a New Boyfriend
by: BOBBIE

There are other fish out there. Forget about him and move on. He's just not that into you. Get someone who appreciates you.

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