Feeling Very Foolish

by Rebecca
(San Jose,Ca)

I have been dating a man for three years and about a year ago I found all kinds of porn on his computer...after having so many problems with him sexually and him not wanting to and only being there for me once a week if that, now I know it is normal for men to have porn and that was not the issue, the issue was that he lied about it and it was all sex dating sites and he even had nasty pictures of his ex girl friend who he claimed to hate and he said I should be ok with it.

I helped him and stood by him for three years helping him pay for and fight to get his son back from his ex who he always told me accused him of being violent with her. In the end, I saw a side of him that scared me and made me no longer believe him.

Now he says he still loves me and that we should get back together, but he only says this will happen if I buy a house big enough for all of us to live in. I am very confused and scared to believe him.

Please help me...

Rebecca