Fight for Relationship or Let It Go
by boriiqua
My boyfriend and I were doing a long distance relationship and I felt like it was too much for him. I was supposed to move to where he lives this summer, but my plans changed and I won't be moving until next year. I don't know how to tell him that I won't be moving back. He told me that if I wasn't moving back this summer, then the distance would be too much for him. I was scared to lose him so I broke up with him. I told him he didn't do anything wrong, I just didn't want to keep him waiting any longer. As much as it hurt me to say it, I told him I thought he would be better off with someone else who isn't so far away. He told me he doesn't want anyone else, but I personally think he can be a lot happier with someone closer to him. So right now, we're sort of taking a break. He asked me if I was going to mess around with other people. I told him no, I wasn't, then I asked him if he was and he just replied "you told me to." That is true but it hurt so much to hear it. I'm so confused. I know that I don't want to lose him for good, but I don't want to hold on to him and continue to hurt him because we don't see each other as often as we would like. I have other dudes that want to go with me, but my heart just wont let go of my ex. I don't know whether I should fight for this relationship or just let it go and let him be happy with some else. Help! How to find out if someone is right for you Click here to read or post comments. |