Fighting For Your Love Rather Against Each Other

by Johanna Virtue
(Toronto, Canada)

In an interview on MSNBC, Dr. Laura Berman says that it's how couples fight that determines whether they'll stay together. Berman says that couples need to learn to fight FOR their love, rather than AGAINST each other. This requires communicating needs and feelings, rather than hiding behind anger and resentment.

If more people could adopt this philosophy, the world would be a happier place. Problem is most people are invested in their ego and in making the other person "pay" for the way in which they feel they were wronged.

Perhaps this could be the subject of a Laura Love video because while Berman tells couples what to do, she doesn't really tell them how.