First Love

by Mayra Del Rincon
(Goodyear, AZ)

I have a first love that for the past 10 years I have been thinking of. Since then, I have looked for him and have seen him a total of 2 times. Nothing has happened between him and I, we talk, agree that we love each other... and then he disappeared and breaks my heart again! I looked for him again one month ago... he responded with what I thought was the same love I felt... well I was wrong! He again disappeared on me...ha ha! I never learn!


But I love him, and I get anxious and want to talk to him... what should I do? He oviously does not love me the way I love him.... I am heartbroken!

By the way I am married with 3 kids... he is divorced with 3 kids.... ha ha!

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Apr 08, 2009
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by: Rahim

Well, I'm sorry!




Apr 08, 2009
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Still in love with the first
by: Anonymous

As I am reading this, I am going through the same thing myself. I have loved him for over twenty years and have been off and on the whole time. I haven't seen him in 7 years and I just spoke to him.

I still love him and I am tired of my heart breaking. I'd rather be his friend and have him in my life sometimes than becoming my lover and risk never seeing him again.

I feel like that insecure high school girl again, wanting him to love me back. He says he does and then he's gone. I don't want to lose him again. I don't know if I should give him another chance. By the way, I am divorced with kids.

Apr 07, 2009
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Appreciate You
by: Rahim

I don't know exactly what happened to you, but I want to say that I really appreciate you for the steps you have taken. Obviously, we've all had some ups and downs in our lives. In those situations, it would be nice to have a plan for how to best handle that situation.

So now I hope that you are quite happy in your present life with your baby and 3 kids, then come on, buddy, just cheer up :)...

Apr 07, 2009
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Heartbroken
by: Anonymous

Well ...

Since you are married maybe he can't trust that you would not do the same to him. If you really want love in return you should divorce first then maybe he wouldn't disappear on you. Please wake up. You have children and is your life all that bad? After all, you are not divorced ..yet!

Are you heartbroken or feeling guilty?

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