Friends or Lovers?
Chris and I have dated for the last 4 years I was not a big love affair no marriage to be involved. I am 19 years older he is 52 I am 71. I love him with all my heart.I saw him drifting slowly.
For Valentine's I asked him what we would do, his reply was I am busy. I confronted him over the phone, after denying seeing someone else he did admit it.
On valentine day I took to his office all he had given me, it was wrapped in red paper. After 2 weeks of silence he wrote me a letter, stating he needed to be with someone his age at this point of his life.
He called me last tuesday asking for us to get togather,I said yes. He came with flowers they were lovely. I asked him why we could not stay away from each other, his reply was we are friends and lovers. I did know what to say, so ok is what I said. But now I am wondering if he is using me. I am baffled and do not know what to do. Please help.....Me.