Girl who drives me crazy

by Travis Malone
(Lubbock, TX)

I stopped seeing this girl who I cared for more than ever. We ended our relationship because she fell for her best friend. It's been two months and I can't stop thinking about her, but I let her move on with her life.


Yesterday, she texted me out of nowhere and we talked a lot. What does this mean? Should I pursue her or should I just forget about her? If I'm supposed to forget her, how do I do that?

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Jun 07, 2009
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Getting over heart-break
by: Rhiannon

I'm going through a similar situation. I have been in love with a man for almost 2 years now. He told me from the very beginning that he did NOT want a commitment. It's my fault really because I thought I could change him and make him love me.

He just walked out on me this past week. It was a horrible scene. I begged, pleaded & cried, but to no avail.

It was very hard to do but I *made* myself make lists like: Unhealthy Things About Our Relationship, In What Ways are We Truly Compatible? What Really drives me Crazy about Him?

The lists helped me to put things into perspective in my mind. My heart still hurts. As much as I don't want to, I know I must allow myself some time for grieving but I only allow a certain amount...so that I don't obsess about it constantly.

Hope this may be of some help to you.



May 23, 2009
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Good Luck
by: Myca<3

I think that her text means that she still wants to be friends or it means she wants you two to be together again. I think you could go after her only if you think you're ready and if she is too. But if you think that one of you aren't ready, then don't do anything.

I am trying to get over someone too but I just can't. My friends keep telling me that I should get over him soon, but it hasn't happened yet.

So try your best. I believe that you will be able to do it. Good luck and I hope I helped you.

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