Happily married but in love with another man

by Sandy

I am happily married, and have been for three years. There is this guy, actually my "first love", we have not seen each other in seven years. We recently reconnected and I cannot stop thinking about him. He has the sweetest girlfriend, and I think he is happy. I feel guilty. I want to tell him how I feel but I am scared. Should I cut all ties with him? I love my husband very much, and I don't want to hurt him, but I don't think it is very fair of me to go on feeling the way I feel.

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Feb 15, 2009
Happily married but in love with another man
by: Anonymous

First, you need to ask yourself why you are married. Look at your life. Ask yourself, am I happy?

This is just a temptation and a longing of wanting to feel the way you did when you first fell in love.

Second, your husband will be hurt, so don't tell him. Make what you have with your husband better and live out those fantasies with him.

No one will treat you better than your husband. It's not true when they say the grass is greener on the other side. It's just an illusion from where you're looking from.

Jul 17, 2008
Happily Married?
by: Adrianna

You need to really sit and think about whether you are truly happily married. If so, then you need to cut all ties with this other man because you are ruining your marriage.

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