He Broke Up With Me

by Claudia
(Lexington, MA USA)

My fiance and I have been both battling some interpersonal issues, and recently he broke up with me so he can focus on himself. He and I still talk on the phone every night and he wants to go back to being best friends, but this is very painful for me. I want him back, but he tells me he's not ready for even the smallest commitment yet. What do I do?


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Jun 19, 2009
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Move On
by: Anonymous

Try to forget him.

Apr 25, 2009
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he broke up with me
by: Big mom

Stop talking to him. Start allowing yourself to heal and grow. Meet new friends and start loving yourself. Get more into your Faith.

Please listen to people and give them space and more. I hope this helps.

Apr 23, 2009
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Play the game
by: Grace

Claudia,

I know you don't wanna hear this but, your fiance is interested in someone else. In the meantime, you should ignore him and occupy yourself with other things.

For example: Go out with your friends, take up a hobby, exercise, take a vacation.. etc.. anything that will keep your mind off him. If he calls you, don't pick up the phone ... let it go to voicemail.

Let him wonder what's you're doing with your life now that he's not around. Play his game, but be two steps ahead of him.

If he loves you, he'll chase you and realize what he's lost. He would not want to ever break up with you again! I suggest a great book to read is Why Men Love Bitches (see link below). Good luck!



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