He expressed his feelings for me but what does this mean?

by Tara
(Buffalo, Ny, Usa)

Okay so here is the situation. I have been friends with this guy since August, it is now Jan. We became really good friends. He is like my best guy friend right now.


Anyways around November we started to get a little more serious. But we don't have a title on our relationship. So far we are just friends. It is kind of like we are together and dating but were not at the same time.

So like a week ago he expressed his feelings for me and was telling me that he cared about me and some other stuff. Now I don't think I gave him the reaction that he wanted. Because in the back of my mind I knew when we first started talking he said that he wasn't looking for a relationship.

He said this because he didn't think it would be fair to the girl since he wouldn't be able to give his all from being so busy. He is currently a senior, in a fraternity, in Rotc, and also works so us trying to find time to spend together is kind of hard.

But my reaction was just like kind of nonchalant. Because of my reaction, I think, he was like never mind just forget that I ever said that. I mean I do care and I was happy but it kind of tore me apart at the same time.

I am one of those people who doesn't really show my feelings, I am not so much an open person and I know I need to work on this, but from this he thinks that I am emotionless.

I just want to know like someone else view and what they think of all this, I would love to be with him but it's like he is sending me mixed signals. I am just confused, does it seem like he wants to be with me or am I just crazy? Thanks in advance.

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