He Tries to Control Me

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 1/2 years. He's perfect except he's so jealous and gets mad very easily. I feel like he tries to control me. Is this healthy?



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Mar 14, 2010
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by: Holly

No, this is not healthy. Just remember, love (true love), is a healthy relationship. How do you know if it's a healthy relationship? There's mutual love, trust, and respect! There's no time for jealousy, and disrespect -- that's a sign of immaturity!

A person who gets mad very easily, and is very jealous, has "issues" that go much deeper. Everybody deserves happiness. Just remember: love is a 2-way street. Whatever you expect, you should be willing to give, in return.

When you find true love, you will know! There won't be any doubts! I'm not saying that there won't be any arguments. However, when you REALLY love somebody, you're willing to compromise on some things, and they are willing to compromise on other things.

Like Penny said, communication is the key to working out your differences. If one of you isn't willing, move on. With TRUE love, both people are 'more than willing,' to find a way to make things work! Good Luck to you! Love, ~Holly~

Mar 11, 2010
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No: Not Healthy
by: Penny

It is a good thing you can see how he is now before you get in any deeper.

It is not healthy and HE WILL NOT CHANGE. Ask yourself is this what you want to live with all the while you're with HIM?

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