hopeless...

by chris reyes
(philippines)

my husband is having an affair since 2006 until now, they already have a daughter who's already 4 years old. i don't know what to do to make it stop. i feel that my husband still loves me because we also have a 6 year old daughter. he is staying with us but every night when we are already asleep (my daughter and i), he always leaves the house and goes to his mistress and returns only at dawn. I till love my husband and until now i'm still hoping that everything will turn right for the future.


whenever i try to talk to him he just walks away he doesn't want to talk about it, he doesn't want to admit his faults. we're still living together but we're like two strangers. it's hard for me to move on because we're married. before, his mistress also had a spouse but died when he found out that his wife is having an affair. he got sick for a very long time then died of heart attack. that's the time that they lived together and had a daughter.

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Jul 17, 2011
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try to move on
by: Anonymous

i dont think sticking to this kind of relationship will make a good ending in the future...dont think of your kid's life...ur daughter will still be hurt whatever decision u make...im referring to some moms that doesnt want to end relationship with dad because they're sad their kids will have broken family.this is not the real score...the reality is whether u stay on that relationship kids will still be hurt because the atmosphere is not normal already..

Jan 26, 2011
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You deserve better than this situation
by: Anonymous

This is so sad to hear that you think this man loves you. He is only using you to take care of his daughter and house. You need to pray that God will open your eyes and lead you to the truth. You deserve a man that will love you and only you. I hope you find the help you need to be happy. No one deserves to be the other woman, especially when you are his wife.

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