How can i tell if hes lying?

by Josh

i am a 18 year old gay guy. the other night a guy who ive known for quite some time texted me and asked me if i can keep a secret. he told me that hes been gay for some time and that he wants to get with me. he said he doesnt wanna tell anybody hes gay and that his girlfriend is a cover up. he calls me baby and sweety and hunny when he texts me and im really falling for him. how can i tell if hes lying?

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May 16, 2012
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by: Mae

Hi Josh. I'm Mae, and I think I can help you. I am also gay, and have ran into the same problem many a time. How does he act? How stereotypically gay is he? If you've known him for a long time, you can tell by the way he acts. Does he all of a sudden act gayer? Does he fabricate gayness?

If he does, he may be pulling one on you. But if he hasn't really changed, I'd trust him. It takes a lot of courage to come out, let alone to an also gay friend that you have feelings for.

I hope this is somehow helpful, Josh! Good luck!

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