how do you move on when...

by j

The girl that I had been dating ended our relationship saying that she was in panic mode. We had a very good thing going for several months. She said that she realized that she loved me, but could not commit because it made her feel uncomfortable. Now she refuses to talk to me or about what happened.

I think because of her rough past (parents died an untimely death, failed marriage) - she's jaded against a future with anyone who might care for her. I have since let her go, but now I can’t stop thinking about her. I’m going crazy - tried everything to stop!

I have this strong feeling like this one should not have slipped through my fingers. I don’t know how to handle it. Now I feel all the coulda, woulda, shoulda feelings and know there may be no closure in sight.

Any suggestions on what I should/could do? Do I attempt to get through to her? This has really negatively affected me!