How to Break Off A Relationship

by anne
(quezon city)

My ex boyfriend is back here in the Philippines and he asked me for a 3rd chance, but I don't love him anymore because I am in love with someone new. What should I do?

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Mar 25, 2009
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Malaysia kabayan
by: AMOR

Our hearts...they are always open to all..but there will be the right time/right guy for you.
I know how you feel because I have been in your shoes and it's happened to me so many times and I always choose the new one.

I cannot tell you whether to choose the old or new. The answer is in you and how you feel and how he treats you.

Choose the man who loves you more .... that's my advice. Good luck, Kabayan

Mar 25, 2009
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Leaving
by: Anonymous

You need to be sure in your mind that you are finally leaving your ex and why you are doing that.

Mar 21, 2009
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" YOU'RE IN LOVE"
by: Penny

You know what you should do, you're in love with someone new that's what you said so why not tell your ex that?

Mar 20, 2009
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XXX - Hell No!!!!
by: Anonymous

From what I understand. He's not just and EX. He's a triple Ex. Three strikes and you're out. You should have gotten closure after the first break-up. Don't waste your time. Just be happy with your new Love. Good Luck.

Mar 20, 2009
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Firmly and Honestly
by: Spiritually-Minded

Clear and honest. Don't give mixed feelings. He had his chances and the new guy deserves a clear, honest, and a fair chance. Not one intruded upon by your ex. Tell him firmly that it is over, no more chances, and that it is time for you both to move on. Sometimes we return to what is familiar rather than take the courage to try something new. You have shown that you have what it takes to try the new, so go for it with the new guy. Good Luck!

Mar 20, 2009
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Go for change.
by: anne

Go for the one that you are really in love with.

Mar 20, 2009
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Be Clear to the "ex"
by: Pavingmomma

Tell him NO.
There is a reason he is an "ex" - remember it? You don't have to explain yourself, just be clear.
By "trying not to hurt him", It sounds like you might be giving off mixed signals to the guy. He thinks he has a chance. That's not the truth, and so it's not fair to either one of you.
Enjoy your new guy and move on.

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