How to Ex Boyfriend Back

by Ashley
(Great Ben, Kansas)

This guy and I went out for 2 years on and off. Every time we ended things, I broke up with him.


My problem was that once the relationship got serious, I would end it because I know that you have to trust the other person in a serious relationship and I have trust issues because of my past—I witnessed domestic violence. I just couldn't trust him at the time.

Now I think I would be able to trust him. But he won't even talk to me. And I want him back.

It's been about nine months since our last break up and I have been hurting. Usually we'd break up and then get back together within 3 days. But last time after a week went by, I knew this wouldn't be happening again.

I still sometimes cry myself to sleep. And he really won't even talk to me. He has had two other girlfriends. One he broke up with for me, but I was afraid that he was just trying to get me back so I said no. When he was with the second one, he called me about ten different times and asked if I liked him and I said yes.

If I don't tell him how I feel, it blows up in my face, but this time, when he called and asked it and I answered, it blew up in my face anyway.

Help me please.

Confused and Heartbroken


Get back a lost love

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by: Adrianna

You need to sit and focus on whether you can start trusting your boyfriend before you try to get back with him. For now, try to focus on yourself. Once you have done this, make sure he is worth fighting for.

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