I Love Him, But Does He Love Me?

by Lena Rivers
(Canada)

The guy I love and I have known each other for a while now. We talk everyday on MSN, but we've never really hung out in person that much. That doesn't really effect us because we know each other enough through MSN.


He is a really close friend of the guy who I was with before. We never went out because I didn't like him that much. A week ago, my guy and I were talking about 'us'. He said that the only reason we can't be together is because my friend liked me first so I am off limits, otherwise...

He was very sad, just like me, when we talked about us not being together. He's an amazing guy and I really love him, but he always gives me mixed signals.

I told him he was a flirt as a joke. His reply was, "just with you, though, I gave up on other people."

Everyday something like this happens, which makes it hard for me to understand what he thinks about me.

I asked my friends, and most of them said that I should ask him straight up. I don't want to freak him out by sounding so desperate, and I'm afraid I might be rejected.

I really need help because I've fallen for him. I know this is love, I can just tell. Please help me.


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Nov 06, 2015
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Love is something that can't be clarified NEW
by: Anonymous

Love is something that can't be clarified into words. I could stay here writing throughout the day about adoration, however the genuine way you can tell on the off chance that you cherish the individual is by noting this inquiry. "Would you give your life to spare theirs?" If yes, you adore the individual, if no, you are not in adoration. for more information about assignment visit custom paper writing service but remember You feel it in you gut. And in your heart

Feb 09, 2011
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Hope this helps.
by: Anonymous

I had this same dilemma a while ago. And honestly, your friends are right. I didn't have anyone to ask when I needed advice. He was really my best friend. But I did end up asking him how he felt.

To be honest, he did say he loved me but it was hard because he lived really far away. So we're just friends now. And I do still love him. But if we're just friends, that's okay because he's an amazing friend. You should ask straight up. Don't be afraid! xx. Good Luck!

Jul 19, 2010
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es mi historia
by: Anonymous

es mi historia, yo siento que lo quiero mucho, lo conoczoc muy bien, tiene como 3 aƱos que hablomso por este medio, y solo nos hems visto 3 o 4 veces... no se q hacer

Mar 15, 2010
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He LOVES You
by: still_loving_him)=

You can tell he was talking about love and gave you a reason why you two can't be together. Well, if you wait, he will probably become yours.

Aug 01, 2009
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Love Me or Not
by: Lena Rivers

I think he does. Because today he was talking about love. And he told me that we should fall in love because we both like to love and we both know each other. It was probably a joke but at least this time he brought it up. When he said bye to me today on MSN, he said," By the way, you broke my heart" and went offline. I'm going to ask him tomorrow what he meant. Hopefully its something I want to hear :)

P.S. Thanks fer the feedback guys! I really appreciate it <3

Jul 31, 2009
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Does He Love Me
by: Anonymous

You sound so sure. How?

Jul 31, 2009
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Yes
by: Anonymous

Yes, he does.

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