I love him, but he loves HER!

by Sarah
(Sallisaw, Ok, US)

Me and my crush finally started dating I was so happy I had waited for him to notice me for months. We hung out all the time, always made each other laugh and my life was great but one day it happened, my life became better than ever he finally said HE LOVED ME!! I mean I always loved him, but now he felt the same and I couldn't have been any happier. One WEEK later I was at work and my co-workers cousin (Brittany) came in and told me she found a new guy she really liked and that they had their first kiss about an hour before she came to see us. I was very happy for her and asked who the guy was and sure enough my fairy tale was over, she told me my own boyfriend's name and I started to cry, I told her we were together and he loved me, how could this be true ... My boyfriend found out I knew and never answered my phone calls and ignored my texts so it was truly over between us, the love of my life had crushed me. I was lower than I had ever been before and then I was told the worst thing that a girl could ever hear ... The love of my life asked Brittany, the one girl who ruined everything, to marry him ... I live in a small town and word travels fast, I have to hear about them every day now, and to make matters worse I live very close to him and have to pass by every day and pretend like I'm okay and seeing her car in place of mine doesn't bother me!

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May 06, 2015
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good NEW
by: Louis Lane

it is always difficult and almost impossible to understand love as it takes us off our feet to some unknown destination and feelings that are always hard to explain and justify with an example. So just feel and enjoy it rather than waste time trying to understand it.

see this : Beverly Diamonds Reviews

Apr 26, 2010
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take a vacation
by: Anonymous

I know the pain you are feeling. I went through same thing. Honestly I did not start to heal until I stopped finding details about my ex's happy life with his new woman. You need to get away. Maybe an extended vacation with some far away relative maybe try to find a job in a nearby city. You need to get away from the source of your pain.

Mar 26, 2010
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It's never easy, but you are worth more!
by: Anonymous

I completely understand where you are coming from. I met my true love at work...he's my boss! We had this amazing and near perfect relationship both personally and professionally for two years and just this past Christmas he tells me he's still in love with his "Ex" of 8yrs whom by the way I had no idea he was still living with and obviously not an ex. I was blinded by his wit and charm, I know i should be honest and say I fell in love with him and saw a future with him and then he crushed me all the same. Now I live with seeing him everyday and having an extremely awkward relationship and pretend to not care and be happy for his happiness even if it kills me profoundly.

I remain hopeful through this time. I believe that everything happens for a reason and I know you that the pain you have endured it probably the worse pain yet I also know that you are the bigger person to have let go and not belittled yourself to him.

You are worth more than gold, worth more than all the riches in the world and the man who deserves your heart will see this and that other guy will never cross your mind again...you know that saying "she's just a poor man's Sarah!"

You will heal, it will just take time.

Mar 16, 2010
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I am so sorry for what happened...
by: Anonymous

I know how you feel. I do. I've loved a man for 5 years and he doesn't even know I exist. Recently I found out he was in a relationship with a woman and I said to myself "I would die if they end up together". They had their first baby and got married last year. He still doesn't know how I feel.
When I look at them they seem so happy...

Jan 07, 2010
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sorry
by: sorry

I am so sorry that you are in this pain. Please know that you are not alone. I too was in love with someone for five months and he left me for his ex. He told me he was in love with her and doesn't even care about my feelings. It hurts very bad and I know how you feel.

I guess time heals all wounds, but it is hard. I cried when I read your story. I don't know how people can be so cruel and hurtful. Please know that there has to be someone even better out there to give you the love that you deserve. Kisses and hugs.

Dec 09, 2009
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Love Hurts
by: mercedes ramos

I'm only 14 years old, but I went through the same thing. My ex is eighteen and I still love him to this day. Now, all I ever do is cry for him and he knows that I do. He has kids from that girl.

Nov 20, 2009
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Better Off Without Him
by: Anonymous

Better Off Without Him

I feel for you, but look at the bright side: you found out earlier...it would be much worse if you found out after months or worse, years of being with him. It hurts at first, but in time, you will heal and realize that you are better off without him.

Jul 11, 2009
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So Sorry
by: Lauren

Oh my gosh, I feel so bad for you ... He never should have cheated. And on top of that, he married her! I'm so sorry:(

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