I Love Him, He Loves Her

by rochelle
(surallah south cotabato)

I Love Him, He Loves Her


There's this guy who came into my life a year ago. We were so close, it seemed like we already had a relationship. We are not committed to each other and are both single. We talk through Skype almost every night because I am in the Philippines and he's in London working as a nurse. (I'm a college student.)

He came back here to the Philippines and still our communication was strong. He calls me every night and we talk about sweet nothings. He even told me that he liked me, but he didn't try to court me.

One day, he stopped calling me. I just knew that he was courting somebody else. Did he just play with my heart? The"love is in the air" thing between us seemed so real...what happened?

He said he likes her, and he likes me...I can't understand him. Now it's clear to me that he likes her more. She's talented and pretty. I'm only pretty and smart. Until now, I still like him. I"m still hoping he'll be mine. I still believe that he likes me too.

Am I a fool? Or am i just blinded by love? Can you please help me know what to do? My mind says forget him and move on, but my heart says no. =(

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Jul 26, 2010
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be straight forward
by: shilpi

Your problem is that you are seeing only one part of the coin. You can talk him regarding almost anything, just talk to him straight regarding this matter. If he says he likes you, than tell him bluntly that you have to choose and if he wants to go back to the third person just let him go because it would be useless to be with him. Be strong and save your life.

May 19, 2010
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Listen to Your Head
by: Anonymous

I know what you are going through. Listen to your head that is the best decision that you can make. It will be hard but in the end you will be glad you did.

He played you. You didn't know what you were getting into and that is okay. Just remember what he did if you decide to talk to him again or you do this again with another guy. :)

May 19, 2010
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Love him and let him go!
by: Anonymous

Sometimes love comes in our life and we remember it always. Maybe a lesson to be learned or just a lovely memory. I say let it go and move on. The best is yet to come.

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