You caught him looking at you too? Well maybe he does like you. My advice would be to just talk to him about it or just ask him out. The worst he can do is say no. Honestly it IS scary, at first. But you'll find it's better to KNOW how he feels rather then to GUESS or WONDER.
Nov 06, 2009 Rating
Don't Keep Your Love a Secret by: shamseer
I'm a guy of 17. I was also in love with a girl but I told her many times and it took a year for her to understand my feelings. Now we've been together one and one-half years because we love each other. Don't keep your love a secret because it will hurt you more than you can guess.
Nov 03, 2009 Rating
good luck by: Anonymous
Wow, that is amazing. I know almost exactly how you feel! I'm only just fourteen, and I think I love this guy... but the thing is, I haven't talked to him in about 3 years, and he is 2 years older than me.
I don't know what to do, so I'm probably not any help to you, but I'm just saying that if I DID know him, I would tell him that I love him because in 20 years time, you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than the ones you did.
Sail away from the safe harbor. Dare. Good luck, I really hope you get what I think you deserve which is him.
Jul 10, 2009 Rating
The Truth by: Anonymous
This is a tough decision, and the funny thing is, I'm in that same exact stage as well. I'm just now turning 13 in August, but let me tell you, my body and perspective are much more ahead than my age.
I wouldn't ask him out. I think he should do that, because if he says no, people might start talking about it. He might think you're pushing it too much.
In my case, you could say my boyfriend is my BFF. I have always liked him, for at least 5 years, and he hid it away that he had liked me for a very long time as well.
One day, I decided to tell him that I love him, and he was kinda happy, but later, thought I was pushing it too much, so I apologized, and said I wouldn't do something crazy like that again, and he accepted. Well that was the beginning of this year.
Since we still really liked each other, his mom kinda gave me a hint about something he wanted to do, after all that time. He wanted to take me out to a movie on my 13th birthday! and like, I still can't wait until then. But he did it, because since we had been friends for long, he knew me.
I wasn't deceitful with him, and kept to what I said which was I wasn't gonna go crazy again. I think he made him see our relationship as one that could last.
The key in this, is not to push it.
Jun 23, 2009 Rating
Go Fo It! by: Spiritually-Minded
I would suggest that you take some time to get to know him as a friend. You know your girlfriend's very well and you know that you can trust them for their love and support. Now spend as much time as you can getting to know the guys you want to date and see if you get the same results.
Love, trust, respect, and honesty are important in friendships as well as relationships. Tell him how you feel, ask him out, or just to hang out with some friends as a group. If he says no, that's okay. You can still be his friend, if that's what he wants, and if not, you can move on.
If you spend too much time focusing on just him you might not see the next best thing that is looking for you.
Jun 21, 2009 Rating
Be True by: Ali
My friend has the same problem. To us, her close friends, it sometimes gets annoying. She ALWAYS seems to be talking about her crush. That seemed to be the only thing people noticed about her.
So I suggest to only confide your true feelings to your closest friends. To my friend that was me, I gave her advice, and her BFF who supported her mostly. Others tend not to know you completely.
Now for advice for you. Try talking to the guy. Be friends with him as a person and not just his great sense of humor. He stood out to you so make yourself stand out to him. Don't try too hard because if you do, people will start talking. Be yourself and I hope he will love you.
Jun 21, 2009 Rating
Take a Risk by: Anonymous
Kym, if you love someone, you should take a risk and just ask them out. If he says yes, then GREAT, but if he happens to say no, then at least you can say you tried & you can continue to crush on him. At least all your friends know about it and they can support you and help you if all doesn't work out.
