I'm lost in this web i tangled in myself.....

by lost and confused in the sea of life
(southern california)

My name is Eric and I'm so lost right now. Okay, here it goes: I married a women whom I love dearly. We were together for a 6 months before she cheated on me while I was gone to Iraq. I divorced her and ever since then we have been on and off for the past two years. Well we went on a three month break when I came back into her life and now she wants to start off as friends. She and I got into to it with my insecurities on Sunday, 02 March 2008 and we came to the conclusion that we need to work on this as phone friends. So I did not talk to her until tonight via text messaging. She told me that she was going to a strip club (she knows I would flip out when she told me that) I did not get too much into it ... just told her to have a great night and then I asked her do you have a boyfriend do you want me to leave you alone and give you space. She responded by saying you are doing it again and I will not deal with you like this, have a great night.

I'm just wondering what should I do. Should I stick around and see were it may go or should I call it quits?