I'm such an idiot

by Sarah
(South Carolina)

I met this dude at the lake this summer. We talked a little, and I got his number. When we got home, me and my friend called him. I was scared like I don't know what.


I almost didn't do it, but the second I heard his voice, all my worries and problems disappeared. I knew he had a girlfriend, but I kept talking to him.

We talked every night for almost a month. He broke up with his girlfriend saying that it just wasn't working for him. Me, being my stupid little self, began to hope. I knew it wasn't going to go anywhere because he lives 30 minutes away from me, but I couldn't help but hope.

Eventually I told him I liked him, and he said that was cool, but he didn't like me like that. I was just happy that he was still talking to me. We kept talking, and I knew that I had fallen in love with him.

He has a girlfriend now, and I don't know what to do with myself. I can't stop thinking about him. Every song I hear on the radio makes me think of him, even it has nothing to do with anything. I read his name, I hear his name, I think of him, and I smile. My heart smiles, and I am happy. I can be in the worst mood ever, but if I even talk to him for 5 seconds, everything is better. All my problems disappear, and I feel as light as a feather.

I don't know what to do anymore. I can't get that boy out of my head or my heart. I need some MAJOR help here. I don't know whether to hang on to him and hope for the best, or just give up now. Please help me by posting some helpful comments.

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by: Brittany Joshua

You have to make a hard decision and leave him. When he realizes that you are no where and no one is there to talk to him at night. He will definitely feel that thing. Make him regret and let him decide by himself. Dont worry and go for aussie essay and this ignorance trick.

Mar 17, 2015
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by: Dayne

In my case it was just reversed. I didn’t express my love to her, one day when we were chatting she has told that she loves me. At that time I get surprised and I became silent for few minutes. It was one of the unforgettable moments in my life. Beverly Diamonds

Mar 20, 2011
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dont worry
by: gigglez

i know it can be hard but move on he knows you like him and he might not like you if you cant get him out of your head ask him if he feels the same way he he dont them move on stay friends with him you always should have a friend to talk to :) if he does wait for him :)

May 13, 2010
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Keep on trucken, and follow what you believe in.
by: Josh S (16 yr old)

Well, it's cool. I live in the town over from my girl. As if that stopped us. I'm only 16, I got friends in the next town over where she lives. That doesn't stop me from riding my bike all the way over there. It's a long way, but it's worth it. It's a 35 minute bike ride, and a 2 hour walk. I have to ride all the way down a mountain, and then all the way up it but Are relationship has been working out just fine. Hey, don't sweat it, and follow your heart.

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Jan 24, 2010
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Move On Like He Did
by: hannah

My advice is move on like he did. Try to do something useful or go out with your best friends.
Kristina, I have been in your position before, but the guy lied to me and told me that he likes me too.

I have to move on because he simply does not deserve me. Good luck:)

Jan 06, 2010
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Same Situation
by: kristina martinez

I have almost the same situation, except that I went out with him 3 times already and still haven't gotten over him. Now he is trying to get with this other girl and it really hurts me all the time. I thought maybe if I did something different, he would come back to me but I ran out of things to do...sometimes I feel like trying to make him feel like he makes me feel, but it would probably hurt me even more.

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Sep 08, 2009
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Continue with Your Life
by: Anonymous

I was obsessed with a guy for one year straight. Every chance I could, I would stalk him in some way.

Just give yourself a break, and look for someone else. He isn't worth your time. Trust me. He doesn't deserve you.

May 29, 2009
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Move on
by: Anonymous

I would move on because I've been in your position.

May 04, 2009
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I know exactly where you're coming from.
by: Anonymous

I am in a very similar situation myself. Sometimes I think I'm an idiot too, but you have to realize, we can't control who we have feelings for.

I've liked this boy for about 4 months. About a month ago, he got a girlfriend. Two weeks into that relationship, he finally told ME that he liked me, but that he couldn't anymore because he has a girlfriend. That statement alone drove me crazy. I mean, who tells someone that they 'can't' like them anymore?

Anyways, now, a month later, I still have the strongest feelings for him. But there is nothing I can do, because he seems happy with this girl.

Easily, she's much prettier, and skinnier than me. That is the only thing that I can come up with to explain why he's with her and not me. I won't give up on him, and you shouldn't either. If it's really not meant to be, time really does heal everything.


Apr 27, 2009
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Keep Doing What You're Doing
by: Anonymous

HEY. guess what. im just random girl here, reading everyone's advice; thinking, man, it's either this or this or that or that. But I think you're different from them, because you actually had the courage to say to that boy that you liked him, and then still live with the fact that he said he didn't like you back and then still talk to him every night, so you don't need major help. You just need to keep doing what you're doing.

Then one night, what you're waiting for might happen. You just need to time it right.

Mar 18, 2009
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You are not an idiot......
by: Latza

I'm going through something similar to what you're going through. It's hard to know that you love someone and they don't love you back the same. The only thing I can tell you is to fight for your love and just be yourself. Hopefully, when he realizes what kind of person you are and how much you love him, it's won't be too late. And loving someone with all your heart is not being an IDIOT, it's called "TRUE LOVE."

Mar 18, 2009
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If you love something, let it go
by: James

It can be difficult to live with unrequited love. If it is still impossible to think of him as a friend, I think it would be healthy to find other ways of spending your time.

It's dangerous to hold a single person responsible for all your happiness and joy. I'm sure you can find it within yourself to move on, or if you can, keep him as a friend.

Mar 18, 2009
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Love is Life
by: Mi amor(malaysia)

Hi friend,

First of all, you are not an idiot..
I was in your shoes 2 years ago. I did love a man dearly and when you love a person, you can't even describe it..I was hoping and hoping for him to come and call me and tell me that he still loves me, but it was impossible since he never cared.

Actually it's not that we are not attractive or not pretty. I think we are not the woman that his heart wants to claim, but believe me, one goes and ten will come.

Now I'm quietly happy even though not entirely recovered, but at least I have some admirers who really do care for me.

So take my advice someone will come and you will never know. Good luck to you.

Mar 18, 2009
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Love Yourself
by: Anonymous

If he cannot recognize how special and loyal you are, that's his loss. I've been in your same position with a guy that knew. I loved him and he used to flaunt other girls in front of me. Yet he took advantage of my love by leading me on and getting what he wanted from me.

This was when I was 15 and now I'm 34 and now I have his 15 year old son, who he does nothing for. Now my son has to hurt sometime and go without because I waited and hoped and compromised myself for someone that never loved me.

Let go. I don't know if you know the Lord, but if you hold out, God will send you that one that you are made for. The one that responds back to the love you give him. Do not short change yourself waiting for someone to realize you are special. It's his loss. Please take this advice from someone that had to learn the hard way.

Mar 17, 2009
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you're a hopless romantic
by: Anonymous

You're no idiot. You're just a hopeless romantic, which is way worse. Don't feel bad--I've been where you are before. For a long year, I held out hope for this guy even though he told me he wanted to be just friends. He went into the Navy and I still couldn't let go. Not too long after that, I found out he was newly married and had a baby. A dagger right through my heart.

I didn't have a choice but to let go. Oh, I was crushed. Sometime after that, I met a wonderful guy. we've been together for almost a year. so my advice to you is: let it go. It will be hard but you'll find someone who really loves you.

Mar 17, 2009
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keep strong
by: Anonymous

Deal with that now: accept he never was going out with anyone.

Keep strong...don't lose HOPE.

Mar 17, 2009
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you're an idiot
by: pablo

you're an idiot... get a clue...

Mar 17, 2009
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Friendships are precious too
by: Anonymous

Unfortunately we can't make someone love us. Put it where it belongs and accept it. Let it go with prayers. Appreciate your friendship, for those are very precious too.

Mar 16, 2009
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Get Out While You Can
by: Anonymous

Hi my name is Jessie in my opinion you should get out while you can because if he has a girlfriend he is just a player he may not be the right guy for you .

Mar 16, 2009
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Patience & Prayer
by: Anonymous

Good things come to those that wait, so they say. But the best way to handle is is by praying for Guidance. If roadblocks pop up, take notice. Pray even more. If they continue to pop up, then you know he is telling you something you may not want to hear. To fall in love with someone is human, but not always what is best for us. I see no idiot here.

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