Don't expect him to love you the way you want to be loved by him. Put your feelings for him in their proper place and do yourself a favor and find yourself a straight guy who loves and wants all of you. It is the best thing you will ever do for yourself.
I went through this same situation many years ago and it was an absolute heartache. You see the problem is that you cannot possibly compete with this. He loves and likes men. You have all the wrong parts and you cannot compete, you are not even on the same playing field.
So give up, let him go and put your friendship in it's rightful place...up there on that shelf called EXPERIENCE. Good luck to you and may you find a man who loves you as much or more than you love yourself.
Jun 08, 2009 Rating
connections are precious by: Anonymous
Take your relationship and love it for what it is. He is your friend, and friends are rare and special. Hold no expectation, and love unconditionally...without expectations. Let your own needs go and they will be met, if not by him, then by someone. Just love him for what he is. Any connection is precious.
Jun 08, 2009 Rating
Blessed Friendship by: Penny
Now, both of you know where the other stands and can grow from being enlightened. You are one of the lucky ones, most others friendships after a confession such as yours break apart. You now know that your friend is gay and he knows how you feel. Don't feel too bad that you told him, be glad your friendship is still intact. Tell him, you're glad he's still your friend and that you're his! "Your friendship is blessed."
