My best guy friend and I have known each other for years. We've fought, argued, laughed, made up and done so many things together. But up until recently, I started noticing him in a different way, I think about him a lot more now, i blush when someone says his name, and I swear my heart is about to explode whenever he's near.
And, about 3 months after i started liking him like this, he broke up with his long term girlfriend, and this practically killed him. Literally, he went a bit suicidal, and he told me "Nobody would care if i died."
I said, "Well, then im a nobody," and i think im in love.
He recently asked me if i liked any guys, and he spent an hour going through all the guys i know and asking if i liked them, i told him that none of them were the one i love.
I decided that we were not meant to be, and i tried to hook him up with all the girls i know, but he said that his heart was too broken.
I don't know if i love him, I and Im scared. Scared that if I try and go out with him, that we will both have broken hearts, and that if i tell him i love him, that he wont love me back.
HELP ME!!! tell me what to do- I'm terrified and I can't sleep at night- give me advice
Mar 23, 2010 Rating
Same here by: Anonymous
I totally know how you feel! Its too hard to get over him but at the same time I just cant. Why are guy friends such perfect but also horrible crushes? Knowing they like someone else or even love breaks your heart into a thousand pieces. I don't know what to do!
Sep 24, 2009 Rating
Know how it feels by: Anonymous
I know how hard it is to wake up in the morning and know you're the one who knows him best and that you love him more than he will ever know.
My story is about the same. I've known my best guy friend for four years. This past summer, I hooked him up with two of my best friends. He also committed suicide. It just broke my heart that he thought people honestly didn't care about him.
Sep 13, 2009 Rating
TELL HIM by: Anonymous
Tell him how you feel.
I told my best guy friend how I felt while he liked another girl. He soon became torn between us because he realized he liked us both.
I didn't like the idea of being chosen over another girl, but he and I had amazing times together just dating until he finally chose the other girl. It was sad and I cried but we are still the very best of friends. We were mature about it and realized that he didn't feel as strongly about me.
I still won't let him say her name in front of me but I tried to move on. We both say there's a special place in our hearts for each other because I fell in love with my best friend and he made me get over my fear of being vulnerable, while he realized I will always be the one girl in his life who is there for him, girlfriend or not.
He may not play the role in my life I wanted him to, but he is still in it and that's enough for me. I still keep my head up and know that things can change.
If it is meant to be, it will be. Timing is everything and it may not happen now, but someday it might. Even though my heart was broken I have no regrets about telling him.
Sep 13, 2009 Rating
The best guy friend by: Anonymous
I have the same story, but the main difference is that he knows my feelings and at the same time, I am the one who linked him to another girl who he likes...in short, I served as his pathway to her. I sometimes get caught in the middle and it breaks my heart to help him win another girl's heart...But I want to move on, so I'm trying to be strong and I'm hoping that we'll both wake up and realize all our misunderstandings.
Sep 01, 2009 Rating
Same as You by: Anonymous
I'm in the same boat as you! My advice is to go on with your life. If it is meant to be, God will direct it.
I'm in college now, trying to get my education while my best guy friend is trying to find out if the one who he's with is the right one.
Don't close your options. After all, you never know ...
