Is it cheating when your spouse talks to other women online?

by Mary
(Hanford, CA, United States)

I have been what I feel is cheating by my husband, who talks sexually to other women online. We have separated before because this took up all our time together, he wouldn't come home at times and when he would his cell phone was stuck to him like glue.


I would see the glow of his cell phone at nights when we were sleeping where he was texting or he would go outside and text. I have left him twice and he keeps ask me to take him back. He says things have been destructive because of the things he has done.

Today he tries to want to do things with me, make communication about his day and things that I want our relationship to have but I still find him back to the same thing of texting the websites again what do I do.

He says its not cheating cause these are women he doesn't know and its only the internet, I still find it cheating cause he finds what he wants or tells these other woman things he should be telling me.

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Mar 13, 2011
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IT IS TOTALLY CHEATING!!!!!
by: Bri

I WOULD CONSIDER IT CHEATING BCUZ HES TALKING TO HER IN A SEXUAL MANNER!!JST BCUZ HE DOESNT KNOW THE WOMAN HE CONSIDERS IT NT CHEATING SO IF U GO SLEEP WITH A MAN THAT U DNT KNW AND HE FINDS OUT WAHT IS HE GONNA SAY THAT U CHEATED ON HIM RIGHT???AND UR RESPONSE"I DIDNT KNW HIM SO I DIDN'T CHEAT"" U GET WHAT IM TRYING TO SAY??HONEY I KNOW U LOVE HIM BUT IF HE TRULY LOVED U HE WOULDNT CHEAT ON U A PERSON WHO LOVES SOESNT HURT THIER PARTNER AND HE'S NT EVEN THINKING ABOUT U ALL HE'S THINKING ABOUT IS HIS PENIS AND HOW TO KEEP THAT HAPPY,,,U R A STRONG INTELLEGIENT WOMEN WHO DOESN'T NEED A MAN LIKE THAT IN HER LIFE U DESERVE MUCH MORE!!

Feb 25, 2011
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Talking Online to Other Women Is an Emotional Affair
by: Laura Love

Yes, talking online to other women IS an emotional affair. Your partner is getting his needs for attention met by other women and that is a breach of trust.

Although you may not be able to heal this relationship, you can heal yourself by taking a look at how this has hurt you and how you tolerated this man's behavior, so that your next relationship will offer you much more than this one. If you do not want to give up on this relationship, you may be able to heal your relationship even if you are the only one who is willing to work on it at first.

For more information, read my article on what to do if you suspect your spouse is having an emotional affair. Whatever you do, don't sit back and ignore it because things will only get worse.

Hope this helps.

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