is it wrong to fall in love with your bestfriend who has girlfriend/boyfriend alraedy?

by Arian
(Dipolog city, Zamboanga Norte, Philippines)

...i have a very close friend... i met this guy, a friend of mine during our on-job-training during college. (now, i am working as a NGO). this guy got my number from one of my brothers. and he is always texting me.


i thought, he is nothing but later on, instead of being my text mate, we become friends. until he become my closest friend. so being my friend, i shared everything to him, that is not below the belt. and so he is.. till our OJT ends, we continually communicate yet we seldom see each other.

one day, he remind me of something unusual. he told me, he missed me. and so do i. we began do crazy things. i always told him that i love him, not because he is my friend but because he is a man to fall for. he thought, it is just only a joke and i thought, it is too. BUT, one day, he told me that he fall in love with me too. in short, we love each other.

the problem is, he had a girlfriend and we both don't want to hurt her. what should we do?


need your advice, please?

thank you,

Very truly yours,
Arian

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